I was talking to our neighbor a nursing student who ask me if i can help him with his psychiatric nursing since im a psychology major i said yes but i told him that clinical psychology is the same as nursing except that they differ in one thing they give medicines to the patient.
Last friday when we were chatting outside a store he didnt went to his class. His class was the psychiatric nursing then he said that he felt uncomfortable with his profesor (lagi syang pinagiinitan) his big almost 6ft and his fat very visible his professor base on his story is kinda weird and the appearance looks like BETTY LA FEA if you know that series.
His professor keeps on paraning when inside there class his teacher is not that accomodating always shouting and mayabang said her professors co worker. I said to him that why dont you tell her to head of the psychology department it turn out she is the head of the department. With that attitude he said that nobody wants to go to class there only 15 who religiously attend her class. he notice that his professor is obsessive compulsive in every details in the class.
I told him thats its her defense mechanism and shes just protecting her self that you might laugh at her or dont show any respect with her and she might had a bad childhood experience we dont know what really happend to her that aggrviate that kind of behavior on how she treats her co worker and her students.
I told him not to drop the subject attend her class no matter how rude or bad your professor is. i ask him does anyone teaches thats subject he said none shes the only one so he has no choice but to attend.
Those people who act as monster on other people are people who are so bitter inside on what happend to them during the childhood or when they are growing up. there like bitter melon ang pait ng lasa nya pagkinakain mo pero sa labas parang wala lang.Experience that led to that kind behavior beyond there control that some how affects there attitude towards there peers or even to them self jealousy place a big role or even the environment that when your grown up you will to the same thing that you experience maybe on your child or to other people. this can start to developing mental disorder and the best person who could stop this cycle is you. You dont need other to feel the same way you feel during those dark days of you childhood.
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
Your self is like a window
Are you familiar with JOHARI window I first learn it when I was still in college taking up my degree in psychology it was taught to us by our professor who in now the head of the college guidance I was first year then.
Johari window is a tool use in developing your personal and interpersonal behavior. It's quite fascinating to learn it
It has for quadrant the first one is known to self and know to others this are your behavior noticeable by you and your friend
2nd one is the known to self and unknown to other behaviors or skills that you but your the only one who knew it
3rd is known to others unknown to self were in your friends are the one who notice behaviors that are not appropriate or things you are not aware off.
Last is unknown to self unknown to other this is the part that each of every one of us becomes a mystery.
I know you here this every time often said by your friends,your family or your partner that they known you well but it's not true there are still some mystery in you that no one can predict when that kind of behavior will come out no matter how angelic face you are or how religious you are still it will come out that can suprise everyone whether it is good or bad thing for better or for worst.
There are a lot of things that can be associate with this you always read it on the news paper on the crimes committed by some one they know or love. Years being together does not guarantee that you know the person very well there will always be that mysterious behavior that you and I can't predict
Johari window is a tool use in developing your personal and interpersonal behavior. It's quite fascinating to learn it
It has for quadrant the first one is known to self and know to others this are your behavior noticeable by you and your friend
2nd one is the known to self and unknown to other behaviors or skills that you but your the only one who knew it
3rd is known to others unknown to self were in your friends are the one who notice behaviors that are not appropriate or things you are not aware off.
Last is unknown to self unknown to other this is the part that each of every one of us becomes a mystery.
I know you here this every time often said by your friends,your family or your partner that they known you well but it's not true there are still some mystery in you that no one can predict when that kind of behavior will come out no matter how angelic face you are or how religious you are still it will come out that can suprise everyone whether it is good or bad thing for better or for worst.
There are a lot of things that can be associate with this you always read it on the news paper on the crimes committed by some one they know or love. Years being together does not guarantee that you know the person very well there will always be that mysterious behavior that you and I can't predict
Depression on each of everyone
Its common for us to dream or to want something no matter how big and small it is. Some my reach its dream beyond there expectation its over flowing while most of us will not reach even a glimpse or a taste of it we wont get it.
We get depress we keep on analizing this on what went wrong we tried to be brave like a soldier whos going to war whos only weapon is his big heart of serving his country.
You wake up the next day full of energy and optimism that you ll get through no matter how the road maybe. You were inspired by those people who got depress and find a way to start all over again you have prepared your self to a battle were in you dont know who are you up against.
Climbing a mountain is not aneasy task you have lay down your cards every single trick you know you use it but you still failed in life. Then you go to your comfort zone grieving on what has transpire so depress that you cant think that clear. Asking your self whats wrong with me i did what they did but it did not work. You went out with your friends looking for an aswer comforting you telling you that you need to be strong you need to move on and conquer your depression.
They maybe right but we all know that the biggest any of your self is your own self not all is created equal. Not all things will work to every individual no matter how good the advice is.
No matter how big or small the cause of depression we cant force someone to start all over again it takes time or even for ever some people might never achieve there goals in life during there tenure on earth. It is sad but it is the reality that we need to accept.
If the following they your okay after the depressive moments be ready you are not okay the your pretending to be okay cheating your self just to everyone you are strong take your time.
We get depress we keep on analizing this on what went wrong we tried to be brave like a soldier whos going to war whos only weapon is his big heart of serving his country.
You wake up the next day full of energy and optimism that you ll get through no matter how the road maybe. You were inspired by those people who got depress and find a way to start all over again you have prepared your self to a battle were in you dont know who are you up against.
Climbing a mountain is not aneasy task you have lay down your cards every single trick you know you use it but you still failed in life. Then you go to your comfort zone grieving on what has transpire so depress that you cant think that clear. Asking your self whats wrong with me i did what they did but it did not work. You went out with your friends looking for an aswer comforting you telling you that you need to be strong you need to move on and conquer your depression.
They maybe right but we all know that the biggest any of your self is your own self not all is created equal. Not all things will work to every individual no matter how good the advice is.
No matter how big or small the cause of depression we cant force someone to start all over again it takes time or even for ever some people might never achieve there goals in life during there tenure on earth. It is sad but it is the reality that we need to accept.
If the following they your okay after the depressive moments be ready you are not okay the your pretending to be okay cheating your self just to everyone you are strong take your time.
Mysterious one
Not all people knows you just like me i tend to be secretive i dont share what is happening to me no matter what it is i tried to be private even when i have problems i keep it on my self.
Why because i want to be strong and i dont want to bother any one because i know for the fact that when your in need seldom youll find people who are willing to help you no matter what it is wether financially and emotionally because of this habbit of mine i became more mysterious on the eyes of other people behind this happy face is a crying shadow full of problems thats sometimes it takes toll on my health thinking of solution on my own.
Its hard to be like this but i tried several times but i end up alone whats worse i didnt have some to help me thats why i told me self to try to do it on your own. I can laugh but after that im back to normal alone in this world keeping everyrthing to my self.
Pretending your are okay but your not hiding the pain that you going to through you can encourage any one to be brave to talk to other people but as for me i cant even do that to my self i just keep it on my self.
If i cant find a way thats the time but until i can handle it on my own i wouldnt dare any one it is hard but i can.
Why because i want to be strong and i dont want to bother any one because i know for the fact that when your in need seldom youll find people who are willing to help you no matter what it is wether financially and emotionally because of this habbit of mine i became more mysterious on the eyes of other people behind this happy face is a crying shadow full of problems thats sometimes it takes toll on my health thinking of solution on my own.
Its hard to be like this but i tried several times but i end up alone whats worse i didnt have some to help me thats why i told me self to try to do it on your own. I can laugh but after that im back to normal alone in this world keeping everyrthing to my self.
Pretending your are okay but your not hiding the pain that you going to through you can encourage any one to be brave to talk to other people but as for me i cant even do that to my self i just keep it on my self.
If i cant find a way thats the time but until i can handle it on my own i wouldnt dare any one it is hard but i can.
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